From want's to contentment

From wants to contentment

There’s nothing wrong in wishing for worldly things. The problem arises when we develop a feeling of active discontent with what we are and what we have.

There are several things in our lives about which we are not happy. Our ‘wish list’ for something different, something more, something other than what we possess extends to several aspects of our daily life.

Many affluent teenagers now carry cell phones. But not all of them are happy with these gadgets. Every six months or so, they wish to change models; they want more ‘features’; they want the latest. When they are denied what they want, they sulk, they grumble, they wish they had richer and kinder parents. I am afraid many parents are simply pushing their children into the trap of acquisitiveness and covetousness by their indulgence and ‘generous’ gifts! Many children from affluent families simply do not know the value of money.

As for hard work, it is what others are meant to do to get them what they crave; they are brought up to believe that the world and everything in it is theirs for the asking.

Homemakers, mothers and wives wish to have better equipped kitchens; they want more gadgets, more equipment, more aids to make their life easy. They want better furniture, more expensive curtains, and nicer clothes to wear. Men want a better job, a better boss, a bigger car, more money and more leisure. Why, many graduating students from management and engineering institutes consider it demeaning if they are not offered a six figure salary to start with!

There’s nothing wrong in wishing for any of these things. The problem arises when we develop a feeling of active discontent with what we are and what we have. Discontent leads to depression, and depression destroys our peace of mind.

We would do well to recall the words of Jesus: “It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.”

Jesus is not telling us to live in penury; He is only asking us not to be obsessed with material acquisitions and possessions. Greed is not wealth per se; greed is only inordinate, excessive, obsessive need for wealth!

Let us but ask ourselves: what is it that we seek through wealth, power and sense-indulgence? Where will they lead us eventually? Of what avail is earthly greatness and worldly wealth when we know that the call can come any time for us – and we shall be reduced to an urn full of dust and ashes!

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